Here's a powerful method to deal with strong emotions, its simple and its known by many names: Awareness, meditation, sammasati (The Buddha), self-remembering (George Gurdjieff), call it what you may, the objective is how to become a 'witness'.
When you are angry, there is no need to fight it. It is a great opportunity to watch. No need to indulge, no need to fight. Avoid both. Just remain cool, detached, be an observer, as if it has nothing to do with you. Your concern should be only scientific. You must look minutely at the details, at the mystery. "If I follow it, I will not be able to go into it and I wil become angry" In that state how can we watch it? "If I fight it, it will be the same: I will be running away, repressing,avoiding" How can we watch something we are afraid of?
No need to follow, no need to be afraid, just watch silently and a miracle begins to happen, slowly; the more you watch the more you see it dispersing on its own. Just as dewdrops evaporate in the morning sun, as your awareness becomes more intense it starts evaporating faster.
No approval, disapproval,judgement, attitude or commentary: just observe, study, watch, without the desire to change what is, because if you desire to change what is into what you think it should be, you no longer understand.
A dog trainer attempts to understand a dog so that he can train the dog to perform certain tricks. A scientist observes the behavior of ants with no further interest than to study the ants, to learn as much a s possible about them. He has no other aim. He's not attempting to train or to get anything out of them. Thats his attitude. The day you attain a posture like that, you will experience a miracle. You will change - effortlessly, correctly. Change will happen you will not have to bring it about. As the life of awareness settles on your darkness, whatever is evil will disappear, whatever is good will be fostered. You will have to experience that yourself.
What has this to do with Home Business? Affiliate Marketing?.
Are you missing out on the ‘ obvious’ opportunities of building your business?
Remember it is your business, It must be something that you can ‘live’ by.
Make good use of the time and resources that are made available to you.
Spend time sharing with your associates a little of what you learnt from being and working your business.
Remember what’s not good for you is not good for your Client/Customer.
Most important of all is to drop the: ‘What’s in it for me’.
It has to be as consistent, each day every day get your to-do list done to the extent that you almost forget yourself.
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